I’ve always had a soft spot for Leos. They’re warm, passionate, and a LOT of fun to be around. It’s sometimes easy to look at their regal nature and assume that they can do no wrong.
But being a Leo ain’t always easy, and underneath that put-together exterior, they can be capable of some pretty toxic habits. And if they’re not careful, these problematic traits can land them into serious trouble.
Today, it’s time to take a deeper dive into their psyche by uncovering the ten most toxic traits of the Leo zodiac sign.
1. They don’t know how to ask for help, so they just go through things alone.
Leos are fiercely independent creatures who pride themselves on their ability to handle business. They don’t like to burden others with their problems and prefer to tackle everything themselves.
But sometimes, this stubborn self-sufficiency can quickly become their Achilles’ heel. When they’re going through something, they will grit their teeth and struggle in silence, rather than reach out for help. It can be a lonely road, and one that leads to no place good.
2. They lowkey struggle with insecurity and needing people’s approval.
Beneath their confident exterior, Leos often grapple with deep-seated insecurities. They crave respect and admiration from those around them, constantly seeking reassurance that they’re loved and wanted.
This can lead to an unhealthy obsession with the way they are perceived and caring too much about what other people think. They can be quick to feel slighted if they don’t receive the adoration they feel they deserve, and if they’re not careful, it can cause a major strain on their relationships.
3. They can be impulsive as hell and act with reckless abandonment.
Leos are well-known for their adventurous and spontaneous nature, often diving headfirst into things without a second thought. They are thrill-seekers and risk-takers who act first and ask questions later.
But while this impulsivity can be exhilarating, it can also lead to reckless behavior. They can get so caught up in the heat of the moment that they make life-altering decisions based on a single fleeting emotion. Then when things go haywire, they inevitably find themselves having to enter damage-control mode.
4. They can’t let go of things and hold onto grudges for an eternity.
When you come at a Leo, they don’t just get mad – they get even. They never forget a betrayal and can be ruthless in their pursuit of revenge. This is one sign that you do not want to get on the bad side of.
But sometimes they can hold onto grudges far past their used-by date. They can bottle up all that resentment and allow their wounds to fester rather than heal. They’ll replay arguments in their minds, refusing to move on, even when it’s clearly in their best interest to do so.
5. They don’t have a filter and can say the most ruthless things without even realizing it.
Leos don’t know how to be fake. They speak their minds without hesitation and will always keep things real. In a world of facades, their honesty can be refreshing, but sometimes they can take things too far.
Their sharp tongues can deliver some of the most savage truths, capable of cutting you to your core, all while they’re completely oblivious to the impact of their words. If you’re someone who needs everything sugar-coated for you, then you may find that Leo just hits too close to home.
6. They don’t give themselves time to heal and just keep charging full steam ahead.
Leos pride themselves on their ability to continue pushing forward no matter how many obstacles they encounter. They keep their foot on the gas at all times, charging full steam ahead, with little time for breaks.
But they can go so hard and fast that they neglect self-care and inevitably burn themselves out. Instead of taking time to heal their wounds, they believe in “out of sight, out of mind”, convinced they can outrun their problems. However, all that repressed anguish doesn’t vanish – it festers, just waiting to erupt when people least expect it.
7. They can be so hard-headed that it can be difficult trying to reason with them.
Once a Leo sets their mind on something, good luck trying to change it. These hard-headed creatures can be unyielding in their convictions, approaching things with an “it’s my way or the highway” type of attitude.
But while this strong-mindedness can be admirable, it can also land them in hot water. They can be so tunnel-visioned that they overlook potential dangers that are standing right in front of them. They can be so unwilling to compromise that nobody can get through to them, even when, gasp, they are totally in the wrong.
8. They can be bossy and overly domineering.
Leos are natural leaders who know exactly how to take charge of a situation. They often find themselves falling into positions of power without even really trying, simply because it comes so effortlessly to them.
But sometimes, their leadership can verge on becoming abrasive and overbearing. They can get so comfortable calling the shots that they turn situations that call for teamwork into their own mini-dictatorship. If left unchecked, this domineering nature can sometimes get the best of them.
9. They have very zero patience for incompetence.
Leos hold themselves to a damn high standard, and they expect the same from the people around them. If you can’t keep up and handle your own business, don’t expect them to hold your hand.
If you’re slowing them down or making a mess of things, they get quickly irritated, and its anything but subtle. Expect a lot of eye-rolling, audible signs and judgmental looks, as they fail miserably to hide their frustration. This is one sign that’s not exactly known for their patience.
10. They can get so caught up in the chase that they find it hard to be content.
Leos want the world, and they want it yesterday. They are always looking towards the future, ready to conquer the next obstacle. But while their determination is remarkable, it can also have its downsides.
They can get so caught up in the pursuit of success, that they forget to smell the roses along the way. This relentless quest to level-up can leave them perpetually unsatisfied with what they already have. They can feel like they’re stuck inside a hamster wheel, unable to be content.
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